Planning is a pain!!!!

okay so to quickly update you all Darian left on July 5 which was very sad. we spent that day packing mike up. we all had to pack to go to lava hot springs for three days for nates family reunion cause were weird like that ( we being: nate, emma, joe mellen, mike, paul, jenny, and myself) if was dun we went tubeing down some river and fell off this waterfall and lost my glasses. so no fun but mike and paul took care of me so it wasnt all that bad. we got back on saturday the 8th and nate and jenny and paul and me went to see pirates as a double date. (paul and i started dating that day.) the next day was mikes talk and we had the party thing at his house after. then paul drove me home, my mom had left earlier with my car. we were re renting the little house and we had many applicants that speak only spanish paul had to translate everything, all the time, it was kinda weird to have him around all the time. monday was spent with paul and mike i dont remember exactly what we did but we hung out. tuesday we spent it with mike and went to his setting apart and i did a lot of crying. wednesday paul and i spent hanging out so i didnt have to think about the guys leaving mostly watching movies, they take your mind away. thursday paul and i went to institute it was fun. mostly every day from that thursday to the next thursday were the same paul and i hung out by the next thursday (20th) my little sister had gotten very mad at paul and i and decided not to go to institute with us so we went alone. afterwards we went over to his apartment to drop in on his room mates for the heck of it but after a while we decided to go get something to eat. so we went to dennys which took a while cause we talk about anything and everything. neither of us wanted to go home so we drove around and ended up on backus where we could see the city lights. it was very pretty and there where crickets and stars both of which i love. so we were talking and he mentioned how pretty it was and i said yeah its a nice place to propose. . . if it werent for the deisels driving by and we looked at each other and laughed and looked away, then i slyly looked at him and he was shaking and my stomach dropped to my toes. i quickly said you dont have to ask me now. he said i know. i stared at my lap. he took my hand and i slightly looked at him, and he said " Karli. . . will. . . you. . . marryme?" (thats as acutal as i can make it) i totally paused even thought i kinda knew it was coming and after a few seconds i realized i was making him suffer cause i hadnt said anything. he says i said yes but i dont acutally remember saying it but i do remember leaning over and kissing him and then laughing. after that there was a lot of talking mostly about how people were going to freak out and kill us. but so far eveyones been pretty cool about it granted tim wouldnt talk to me for a few days but he cool with it now. so its mostly been missionaries and wedding plans that have made me not update. sorry. the wedding is Dec. 8th in the salt lake temple, if you email(sporty252@yahoo.com) me your address ill send you an invitation cause i cant find my pirate scope plus most of you have moved. i think the worst thing about getting married is changing my name you spell Gadilauskas over and over again and see if you slightyly consider not changing your name. one thing is i feel bad for the kids we dont have yet. how would you like to learn how to spell that???? yes im horrible for not telling you all sooner but toni's was quicker. (i blame her) if nothing else i'll get some random sorts of comments. i love you guys and i hope you keep that day as free as possible cause i really want you guys there. love you all tons. K.A.R.